« whaaat. …why. ..Never again..one day maybe ». We have all been there.
This emptiness,sadness,frustration,unworthiness; which sucks all the energy out of us. Not to mention, leaving you desperate, depressed or moody; and so on..and..the list goes on and on.
Breakups are not included, in fairy tales that we ve been told as kids. Hence why ,we struggle with it in our lives ;which turns out to be huge nightmares when the fog of heartbreak troubles our sky.As a result ,this ageless issue still heat the debates; around love, being single or in a relationship and love addiction.
My breakup story, is a 4-year relationship . I am still single one year later ;but it is my choice. Now, don’t get me wrong . I hav et trully suffered from that downfall. I have just decided ;that it was not my priority at the moment ;and yes it takes time, patience and courage.
So, here are some pivotal tips to keep in mind ;when it comes to breakups!
1-Some songs are just to be avoided if you want to stay away from the second tissue box
2-Some friends, might not get it; or talk about it.However, this avoidance is not always ;to take Badly.Indeed, sometimes people just do not know, what to say. So, You need to forgive them.
3- Besides, your fridge won’t be your best ally but rather the other way around.
4- Some behaviors are just natural and compulsive, therefore, you need to be gentle on yourself.
5-yes you will heal from it. Nevertheless, I don’t know when ;but be patient and it will pay out
6– crying is OK
7– don’t jump on the next boat if your anchor is not free.
Fortunetly , it will heal with time and remember that you can survive anything and it can be the start of a new you !